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Article Name:   Settling Down to Love
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Settling Down to Love

Once upon a time yet to come the Baal Sippur Tov was approached by a
young couple. Even though these two loved each other very much, the
husband  had a problem with settling down to one job or one place. Even
though he was never long unemployed, the wife felt cheated because she
wanted a more secure life. Additionally the husband would often start
something
, leave it unfinished and move on to something else.  

T
hese things had brought the couple near to divorce and they went to the  
the Baal Sippur Tov for advice. He thought for a moment and then told
the
m this story:  

Once there were two families who lived in a small town. To both a child
was born, one boy and one girl. As these two grew they became friends
and often played together. The boy grew to love thi
s girl very much. But
the girl was unsettled and always want
ed to test the boundaries of her
world
. The boy, on the other hand, was content to follow the rules and live
an uneventful life
; however,because of his love, he would often follow her
into dangerous o
r forbidden situations and would generally be the only
one caught and disciplined. He didn
't complain, and through it all held on
to his love for the girl.


S
he also loved him, but the world was calling her to explore it and she felt
she had to
. But she  depended on the boys presence to give her the
strength to do the things she did. She never told him this
, though and it
would be a decision that would come to haunt her.
For one day, shortly
after they had turned 15, the girl decided that she wanted to go swimming
in a nearby river. The water had risen higher then normal that year and
the children were warned not to swim there
. The boy also begged her not
to go in.
Sadly, this only encouraged the girl. So she quickly ran to the
water with the boy following close behind to keep her safe.
It soon became
obvious there was a problem.
The current was too swift and she had a
difficult time staying above water
. The boy knew what he had to do. He
immediately dove into the river and h
eld her head above water while
swimming to shore. He was a strong swimmer and they were very close to

shore
when the boy realized that he also was in trouble. But he would not
let go, which might have saved his life. Instead, he gave one mighty push
that carried the girl to shore and carried him deep into the river.


Without knowing what had happened the dazed girl made it to shore. As
she recovered her breath, she
soon realized what had happened. The boy
was gone and she was saved. She wept and would not be consoled. She
begged God to take her life in exchange for the boys and d
etermined to
take her own life.


But one night the boy came to her in a dream and told her that he knew
how much she loved him and that his love for her would not stop because
they were parted. He asked her to be strong and promised
that they would
once again be reunited
He turned to leave in the dream and then turned
back with large grin, not generally shown when he was alive, and
cautioned her that in this future life,
she might have to put up with his
flights of fancy.


She laughed and cried with him and they joyfully embraced each other for
the last time in that life knowing they would once again be reunited.  


The couple heard this story and they embraced each other and wept, for
they knew they had truly found each other.
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